Venite Adoremus


“In the City of David, a child is born.”  These are the words enshrined in Luke’s Gospel forever.  But as we sit and reflect on them, we realize that there is more to this message than a proclamation of Christ’s birth.  The second of many prophecies about the Messiah has been fulfilled.  The first of course was, “A virgin shall conceive . . . “

When we ask ourselves, “Why does Luke want us to know that a child is born in the City of David, other than to prove that the prophecies are being fulfilled one at a time,” we realize that Luke is telling the world that Jesus is real.  Unlike the gods of the pagans whose origins are mythical, Jesus’ human origins take place within human history, in a human city and at a very specific cave in the outskirts of Bethlehem.  The God who created history has broken into human history.  People may question Jesus’ divine origins, if they wish; however, there is no question about the reality of his existence.   Luke pinpoints it not only giving us an address, but also giving us a time.  He gives us a list of the prominent people of the time.  In doing so, he places Jesus into a social, political, cultural and religious context.  The birth of Christ is not an abstract.  It is a verifiable historical reality.Image

There are other important messages in Luke’s testament.  Caesar Augustus was the emperor.  It is an often forgotten fact that during the reign of Caesar Augustus there was a period of peace throughout the known world and that the emperor’s name referred to him as the savior or the August One in our language.  What we see here is how Roman history, helped set the stage for the birth of Christ.  God, in his divine and eternal wisdom, prepared the world to receive his son at a time of peace, which the pagans thought was designated for the emperor of Rome.  In reality, it was predesigned by the Father for the eternal King of the Universe.

I’d like to draw the attention to one more detail.  Christian iconography has adopted the ox and the ass as part of the manger scene.  The truth is that Luke does not mention any animals in his narrative.  However, the prophets had predicted that the ox and the ass would know their place, but the House of Israel would not recognize the savior.

The ox and the ass become the icon for the Gentiles and the Jews.  Christ had entered into the world for both; but one, being more stubborn than the other, would struggle to accept the Eternal Son of God as the promised Messiah.

Now, we must fast forward in time and ask ourselves, “What does this have to do with us in the 21st century and what is the message for us?”

Let’s take this in two parts. Let’s answer the first question.  God the Father knew us and loved us long before we were formed in our mother’s womb.  And so he sent His only begotten son into the world as one of us.  But he did not come just for the ox or the ass.  He came for Gentile and Jew alike.  He came to call all men and women, of every race and tongue, of every family and nation, back to the love of his Father.  He came to rescue all of us from sin.

Therefore, he was born with a price tag on his head.  This was the infant who was sentenced to death, at the time of his birth.  The scriptures foreshadow that Jesus must die.  Herod orders the slaughter of the innocent children.  Jesus is the innocent Son who 33 years after this night would be executed to break open the doors that barricaded man out of heaven, because of our sins.

The second part is equally important to us.  Jesus is not a figment of someone’s wild imagination, nor is he a legend.  He is a real child born in a real city at a very specific point in history to a very real mother.  As far as the eye of man was concerned, to a real father named Joseph.  For his divine sonship would only be discerned by those who believed.  It was there for everyone to see, but only those who desire to see shall see.  The blind shall remain blind, not through any fault of nature, but through their own choice or because those who have seen have failed to invite their neighbors to the stable to come and see.

The angels of whom Luke writes foreshadow the community of believers whom Christ would send into the world to proclaim the Good News that “Today in the City of David a son is born . . . venite adoremus”

Published in: on December 25, 2012 at 8:25 PM  Leave a Comment  

Did Pope Paul VI Miss the Mark on Birth Control?


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Faith enlightens human knowledge

Let’s look at this as the Church looks at it. Faith enlightens facts, not the other way around. The question is whether our faith is placed in the right place.

The answer is simple. If we place our faith in Jesus, then it’s in the right place. Jesus revealed himself as the Second Person of the Trinity. Therefore, he is truly God.

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Blessed John Paul II

God, made man, promised that the Church would never teach error. God does not lie, nor does God revoke his promises. Therefore, we can safely believe that the Church cannot teach error in matters of morality or dogma.

Jesus also said that he was building his Church on the faith of Peter. Peter was a simple fisherman, not a god. Yet, it is on his faith that the Church is built. Is it possible for God to build his Church on quicksand? No, absolutely not. God’s desire is that we be saved, not that we be swallowed up. Therefore, the logical conclusion is that although Peter is a sinful man, very simple in his knowledge, and a novice in matters of leadership, Jesus must provide him with the help that he needs to support the Church.

Jesus tells Peter, “The gates of hell shall not prevail against you.” There it is, the promise of the grace to help Peter do what Jesus is about to tell him.

Jesus follows this by telling Peter, “Feed my sheep and strengthen your brothers.” If Peter is to feed Christ’s sheep and strengthen his brothers, he must have what he needs to do so. Christ would not set him up for an impossible task, nor set up the rest of the Church with a pope who would be unable to teach Truth.

The future of the Church is guaranteed. Peter now has the grace of the Jesus promises that he will send the Holy Spirit and he fulfills that promise on Pentecost.

The future of the Church is guaranteed. Peter now has the grace of the Holy Spirit to strengthen and feed his brothers with the Truth and only the Truth.

Finally, Jesus leaves us with a message in a roundabout kind of way. He says to Peter, “I give you the keys to the Kingdom. Whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven. Whatever you loose on earth, shall be loosed in heaven.” He gives Peter the complete authority to bind us or to release us and promises Peter and those who are paying attention that he will back up whatever Peter says. Jesus does not place any contingencies here except one. Peter must be speaking about what God has revealed, which is dogma and moral law.

Christ’s gift to the pope does not stop with Peter. This would make no sense. Christ knew that the Church would survive until the end of time. To give St. Peter all of this divine assistance and authority to teach and to bind, but make it impossible to pass it on to his successor would be nihilistic. In other words, once Peter was dead, the Church would have been without God’s protection and without the guidance of the Holy Spirit, because it expired when Peter died. That makes no sense.

The early Christians elected Peter’s successor with full confidence that what was given to Peter would transfer to his successor. To make this more credible, here is a very important fact. John the Apostle and St. Luke were alive at the time of the election of the second pope. They were alive after Peter’s death. Had the early Christians been wrong in their belief that everything that Christ had given to Peter and said to Peter could be handed down to the second generation, they would have said so. They did not. In fact, we have it from St. Polycarp, who studied under St. John the Apostle, that John was perfectly comfortable with the succession and the transmission of power and authority.

This is very important, because it was John who was present when Christ said these things to St. Peter. It is John who wrote them down. John knew exactly what Christ said and exactly what Christ meant. He knew that the power to bind and unbind, the gift of infallibility in faith and morals, and the ability to teach truth without any error was not a gift for Peter alone, but for anyone who occupied Peter’s chair. He understood the nuance in Christ’s words.

Yes, when we say that this is Truth, it is a fact. The fact comes to us from the apostles evangelists who were alive to see Peter’s succession. Therefore, when Pope Paul VI, finally invokes the authority of Peter to say that artificial birth control is intrinsically evil, this is the absolute Truth and the only Truth. His authority to say this without making a mistake is based on all of the above facts.

Faith is not just a matter of what one person believes and another person believes. That’s relativism. Faith is about believing the Truth. There can only be one Truth. If two people have incompatible beliefs, then one or both are wrong. Truth does not contradict itself. ABC cannot be intrinsically evil for person A and acceptable for person B.
If Peter’s authority and his gift to speak only the truth on these matters has been transmitted through 2,000 years, the what Pope Paul VI said is Truth, because it is protected by the promises and commands that Christ gave to St. Peter. Again, it would make no sense for Christ to promise Peter infallibility and complete authority over the Christian faithful, but not intend for it to be handed on to Peter’s successor, since Peter was executed 34 years after Christ’s ascension. Jesus knew this was going to happen. Jesus would not have given the Church such protection for 34 years and then leave us to figure it out on our own from that point forward.

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Pope Paul VI

Published in: on December 16, 2012 at 2:12 PM  Comments (2)  

Children Deserve a Christ-Centered World


As I read here and there about this week’s tragedy I can’t help wonder what’s happening to us.  Schools were places where Jesus and childchildren were bored, not afraid for their lives.  I’m also thinking about the right to life and thinking that it really is more encompassing than we think.

We often think of the right to life when we think of the unborn, the terminally ill and elderly who are threatened with euthanasia or assisted suicide, and those on death roll.  There is more to it than that.  Every human being who has been created has a right to be born and a right to live free of fear.  Life has six dimensions, all created by God.

First:  there is biology.  We’re animals and like every animal we’re conceived and throughout the course of our lives we evolve biologically from zygotes to senior citizens.  ImageDuring that process, our bodies change and adapt to new situations.

Second: there is the soul.  Unlike other animals that have a material soul that is finite, we have an immortal soul.  Once God calls it into existence it will never die.  It will remain with our bodies while we travel through life in this world and eventually be liberated from the body at the moment of biological death.  It will spend eternity in heaven or hell, depending on the choices that we make during our lives.

Third: we have a mind.  We are self-aware.  This is important.  Because the justification that many people use for abortion is the fetus is not self-aware.  However, the real question is this.  Is there any human being on this planet who knows himself?  Aren’t we all in the process of knowing more about ourselves with each experience?  What really is self-awareness?  Is it something that you achieve and move on or is it a dynamic process that lasts an entire life?  I would hate to think that God made us so boring and so limited that we can become fully self-aware by age 25.  Now, if I follow the norm, I have to live with myself until age 80.  OK, that’s only 55 years away.  For the next 55 years, I will become no more aware of myself, who I am, my purpose in life, my place in the universe and my destiny, because I have reached self-awareness.  That doesn’t sound right.  It’s a recipe for suicide; because we run the risk of becoming so bored with ourselves that the only way to get away from ourselves is suicide.  I don’t think God had this in mind.  Therefore, self-awareness begins in tiny steps in the womb and continues in steps to the tomb.

Fourth:  believe it or not, we have all some degree of intelligence.  OK, some of us have a hard time proving that we’re intelligent, but we are.  Human intelligence is not divorced from God.  I remember being in college studying for an exam in math history, yes there is such a thing as the history of math.  Since I was a math major, I had to take it.  But I digress, I was preparing for an exam.  It dawned on me that there is nothing in math that man created.  The Chinese, Arabs, Romans, Greeks, Mayans, Aztecs, Egyptians and every great civilization has made some contribution to mathematics, but no one has created mathematics.  Every mathematician has discovered a law that works.  We call them formulae, theorems, postulates, and functions.  Well, let’s look at this.  If there is a law that consistently works, did it come into existence randomly?  How is it that something that randomly appears on the horizon of human intelligence functions so predictably?  Does it change from being random to predictable?  In other words, are those things that are consistent such as a2 + b2 = c2 random expressions of order?  It seems that order is predictable.  Predictability has intent behind it.  If there is intent, there must be an intelligence behind these laws, an intelligence that is the Law-Giver itself.  In reality, human intelligence has two qualities.  First, it is capable of discovering, understanding and using the laws given to us by the Law-Giver.  Second, it is the living proof that there is a Law-Giver, since we have not created a single law of math or science.  Yet, we can understand them, use them, but we can’t control them.  They are static.  2 + 2 will always equal 4.

Fifth: are relationships.  We’re social animals.  Ethologists would say pack animals.  This is true.  Even a hermit needs human contact.  The Carthusians are a community of hermits.  Each brother lives in a cottage with a walled garden.  They work, pray, study, eat and sleep in their little cottages.  However, it’s interesting to note that the Carthusians all wear the Imagesame habit, follow the same schedule, and say the same prayers at the same time.  Even though they eat alone, they eat the same foods.  While they may be physically alone, they are socially connected to a pack.  Relationships take many forms, some healthy and some very dysfunctional.  God has revealed himself as a communion of relationship:  Father, Son and Holy Spirit.  He models for us how to live in relationship with others as one.  It is we who do not use our intelligence and our mind to pay attention and learn.  Then we wonder why we have conflict, terrorism and violence as we have seen this week.

Sixth and last:  we seek to transcend.  Even the most primitive cultures, no matter how disconnected they may be from monotheism believes that there is more to life than what is here and now.  We live in a beautiful world of expectation.  It’s a good expectation.  We expect to be called to the net life at any moment.  The question is, if it happens as suddenly and as violently as was the case this past week at the school, are we ready?

We want to see God.  We want to move beyond the complications of this world and find peace.  We want to love and be loved without contingencies.  All of this is possible, if we order our lives appropriately.  God does not choose for us how we order our lives, we choose this for ourselves.  Instead of ordering our lives toward that which lies ahead, we have disordered our lives.  Instead of seeking the transcendent God, we get stuck in pain, anger, resentment, fear and selfishness of the present moment.  These feelings release Imagethe destructive power of sin.  Sin seeks the opposite of transcendence.  Sin seeks to separate us from that which is ongoing and noble and it locks us in a present, which can be very threatening, dysfunctional, hateful and eventually violent.  It is a present without God.

I look at what happened this past week and I believe that the further we get away from God, the deeper that we go into this present without him and as a consequence, we’re going to see greater acts of violence.  The solution is simple.  We have to place God back in the center of our personal lives, families, communities and our nation.

As we prepare to commemorate God’s entrance into human history in Bethlehem 2000 years ago, let us not forget that the child in the manger was a victim child.  He was born with a price on his head.  It’s a price that we put there when we choose to leave God out of our lives or even part of our lives.  Let us look at the child in the manger, pick him up and make him the center of our journey through life.  Our children deserve to live in a world where God is present.  Let us allow Christ to come to our children.

Published in: on December 16, 2012 at 1:36 AM  Leave a Comment  

Project Joseph Workshop


IMG_2388In mid-November, we had a workshop to train lay volunteers to work with Project Joseph.  It was the first time that the brothers delivered the talks.  Normally, I deliver all the talks.  They were outstanding.  I was very proud of their knowledge of theology, spirituality, the life issues and pastoral care.  These guys are in the early stages of formation and doing a million other things.  Remember, we get no money from anywhere.  St. Francis said that the brothers had to work for a living.  Our brothers hold jobs, support the ministry, themselves and loved ones.  They divide their time between community, work, ministry, prayer, family and friends, and more prayer.  The workshop went well.  Our next step is to place the new volunteers and have them shadow us for a few weeks until they get the hang of it.

Published in: on December 12, 2012 at 9:08 PM  Leave a Comment  

New Faces


New Brothers

Christ, Br. Bill, Br. Jay, Ruban

We have a few new faces among the Franciscans of life.  I’ll be doing a write-up on each of these ugly mutts.  For the time being, I’ll just show you some pictures.  Of course, if you are interested in adopting or fostering one of these pets, we would be glad to assist you.   All joking aside, we’re very blessed to have these new members to our great Franciscan family.  The most wonderful thing about this is that the Lord sent them.  We did nothing to recruit.

Br. William Vito, FFV

The fellow in the grey habit is Brother William Vito (aka. Bill).  Br. Bill is a novice, that’s why he’s wearing the grey habit.  He is a computer geek and is very invested in serving the voiceless among people with disabilities.  He is also an outstanding religious educator.  He teaches teens, preparing them for Confirmation.  He teaches with conviction, passion, love and most important, fidelity to Holy Mother Church.

Then there is Postulant Chris.  Chris is another computer geek.  Chris runs Project Joseph in Ft. Lauderdale.  He commutes over 30 miles to make himself available to our dads.  The best part about Chris is his contagious smile, especially when he messes up.

Postulant Chris

Postulant Chris

We won’t mention the fact that the superior asked him to organize a photo shoot and to make sure that everyone who needed to be there was there and was properly dressed.  To make a long story short (too late), Chris is very obedient.  He did exactly as asked.  On the day of the photo shoot, the brothers who were supposed to be there were there.  Did I mention that Chris was also supposed to be in the picture?

OK, I forgot that important detail.  In any case, guess who walked into the room in his grunge clothes?  You guessed it right, Postulant Chris.  Suddenly, all eyes are on him.  Chris had completely forgotten the very event that he had set up.  The photo shoot had to be postponed.  Who could get angry?  Chris just put on that little boy smile, like the kid with his hands in the cookie jar.  In all honesty, if you ever forget the definition of Franciscan joy, all you have to do is look at Postulant Chris.  He projects that joy no matter what the situation.

 Postulant Ruban

Postulant Ruban

Ruban, no I did not misspell it, is from India and you guessed it, he too is a computer geek.  I believe that God may be trying to tell us something.  He keeps sending us these guys from the world of technology.  Ruban does not have a pastoral assignment yet, as he is too young in the Franciscan life.  Right now, he’s concentrating on mastering the outer expressions of Catholicism and Franciscan life.  This is very important.  There is no such thing as a good Franciscan, Jesuit, Benedictine, Dominican or Diocesan priest unless the man is first a good Catholic.

The first three months are very hard on the brothers.  There are many externals and changes that one has to learn while on the run.  Therefore, Ruban spends a lot of time before the Blessed Sacrament, learning to navigate the breviary, understanding the rubrics of the mass, the constitutions and other externals that are essential to the life of a Catholic and a future novice.  The one thing that no one misses when one meets Ruban is his curious nature.  I’m seriously thinking of giving him the name George as his religious name.  Curious George would describe him well.

Closing Thoughts

I would like to close this entry with one thought.  As we approach Christmas and we look upon the Christ Child in the manger, let us remember that human nature was the Father’s gift to his most beloved Son.  God the Father would never give his Son a gift that was not precious in his eyes.  The infant in the manger shares the same nature as your neighbor and yourself.  Thank God for the gift of being human and show Him your gratitude by treating every human being with the same gentleness and care that St. Joseph and Our Lady had for Jesus.

Published in: on December 12, 2012 at 8:16 PM  Leave a Comment  

I’m Back . . .


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Baby is not too sure about this

as I promised.  It’s been a very busy year.  Let’s see, . . . where to start counting the Lord’s blessings.

ImageLet’s begin with ministry.  Our Project Joseph, which for those who don’t know is our ministry to fathers in crisis pregnancies is growing.  This past year we moved to a new location in Miami and BOOM!  We suddenly had to start two groups to serve the needs of the dads.  Now we have five groups going in four centers.  This year, we reached 50 Project Joseph Babies.  Who are the Project Joseph Babies?  These are the babies born to dads in our program.  They’re all beautiful, healthy and happy kids.  We’re very glad to have them and very thankful to Our Lady of Guadalupe who protected in the womb.  We are very proud of their parents too.  For some of our parents, having a child is very frightening.  These are hard times in which we live.  Let’s thank Our Lady for protecting the unborn and send up a cheer for the parents who trusted.  I’m always reminded of Elizabeth’s words to Mary, “Blessed is she who trusted . . . “  It’s interesting, because Elizabeth is speaking to an expectant mother.

Published in: on December 12, 2012 at 7:38 PM  Comments (1)  

Let us remember . . .Let us pray


This week, our nation remembers the most tragic decision made in this country, the legalization of abortion.  It is a time of prayer and action for those who have a moral conscience.  Let us examine two moral issues and fallacies here.

During the Civil War, our government emancipated the slaves.  It ruled that human beings are not property.  However, today, we speak about the infant in his mother’s womb as her property.  If he were not the mother’s property, would she have the right to destroy him?  Do we have a right to destroy what we do not own and what is not attacking us?  The argument that it’s not a person does not fly for one simple reason, no one can prove that he’s not.  There are those who say that the pro-life population cannot prove that the infant in the mother’s womb is a person.  The pro-life person is not attempting to destroy the child in the womb.  He or she is choosing on the side of life.  If left to proceed naturally, a person will emerge from the womb.  Those who doubt that the child is a person, are acting on an assumption, not a fact.   Their actions destroy life.  The choice to allow a pregnancy to take it’s natural course does not need to prove anything, because such a choice is not interfering with the natural course of events.

There is another moral issue here.  Every human being has two parents.  However, current law in  the United States and other countries that have legal abortion do not acknowledge fatherhood until the mother decides to keep her child.   This raises an important question of justice.  Is fatherhood determined by nature or by the determination of the mother?  According to current legislation, a man becomes the father of his pre-born daughter when her mother acknowledges that she has a daughter.  In other words, fatherhood has become contingent on the will of the mother.  Even the legal system cannot protect a man’s right to act as a father.  A man has no right to stop the destruction of his daughter in the womb.  Fatherhood is a natural right, not a civil right.  When civil law takes away the rights of fatherhood and makes them subordinate to the will of the pregnant mother, it violates that man’s dignity.  Such a violation is a sin against justice.  There is a strange parallel between this and slavery.  The rights of the slaves were contingent on the will of their masters.  Today, the rights of fathers are contingent on the will of the mother.

Every child has the right to have a father and a mother. Every man has the right to be his child’s father from the moment of conception.  This is the way that nature designed it.  Nature designed it this way, because in his eternal wisdom, God built these laws into nature.  Observe that we do not question the paternity of any other species except that of man, because it is expedient.  If we acknowledge that the child in the womb has a father, then we will have to protect that father’s right to protect his daughter from abortion.  We negotiate with language in order to create laws that deny a man’s fatherhood.  If the child does not have a father, he is subject to the unilateral decisions made by the mother.

Allow me to conclude with a story that happened in our Archdiocese.  I am not violating any confidences.  It has been shared across our diocese.  A few years ago, a young mother called one of our Respect Life Centers.  She was distraught.  She had two children.  The doctor has just told her that her pre-born daughter had Down Syndrome and that she should “terminate the pregnancy.”  The Director of Respect Life invited her to come to the center nearest to her home.  When she arrived at the center, the volunteer who had waited for her received her with a hug.  They prayed and talked for a very long time.  The Center promised the mother to walk with her and to provide emotional, spiritual and material assistance as long as necessary.  The father was invited to participate in the dialogue.  Together, they decided to keep their daughter.

Nine months later, the daughter was born.  Effectively, she had Down Syndrome.  She also became the person who would bring great joy, love and unity to that family.  The parents asked God for one favor, to bless their daughter and grant them the grace to do whatever they needed to do.  God has never let them down.

Every life that comes into existence is a reflection of the love and life of God himself.  No one life has less value than another.  God knows every human being from all eternity.  Each person who is conceived, regardless of the circumstances under which he or she is conceived, has a place in God’s plan for our salvation.  As we proceed through this week, let us pray for those who will be marching in defense of human life.  Let us also pray for those who do not yet understand the sacredness of human life and the true meaning of justice.

Published in: on January 23, 2011 at 1:57 AM  Leave a Comment  

Where are the Catholic pro-life men?


As we look out at the world of men (males) who struggle with paternity, we often wonder why or what is happening in society.  We should wonder is why not?  Why are we surprised, when there is such a shortage of good Catholic men to guide their brothers?  Therefore, why should some men not be lost in the culture of death and at a complete loss as they face the daunting task of parenting?

This is not to say that those who have walked themselves into situations where they face unexpected fatherhood bare no responsibility for their actions and for their choices before or after.  It is easy to point the finger and wag our tongues at so many men who do not step up to the plate and become good Christian fathers who embody the very presence of the Fatherhood of God.  Yet, other men, who claim to have found the loving Fatherhood of God and claim to live in the Spirit of the Father, do not reach out and share the Gospel with their brothers.

It is very easy to condemn a culture of death and to sentence those facing life-threatening choices such as abortion and contraception from the comfort of our homes.   Such a person is like the judge who sits in judgment on his bench and condemns the guilty man for his delinquencies; but when his day in court is over, he retires to his quiet and serene suburban home.  On the way home, he deliberately bypasses the riotous and noisy neighborhoods where the delinquents that eventually will find their way into his courtroom are being bred and formed.  Such a judge may feel that he is doing something for society by passing judgment.  The truth of the matter is that while he has time that is not on the bench, he does nothing for the community that passes through his courts on a daily basis.  In other words, he does nothing to put himself out of a job.

The same is true about Catholic men who sit in judgment of their brothers who are considering abortion or even worse, who have participated in an abortion by providing the dastardly service, taking the life of an unborn child or pushing the mothers of the children whom they conceived to submit to such a horrid crime.  We go to pregnancy centers, prolife workshops, provide education to men who are struggling with the challenges of poverty, addictions, violence, displacement and a lack of sexual integrity.  It is a challenge to bring these men into the centers, the churches, and the community of believers.  Evangelization and service to them can seem an insurmountable task, because there are not enough workers in the vineyard.  In other words, there is a critical shortage of Catholic men who serve their brothers and evangelize them.

The prolife movement has become feminized, as if abortion, euthanasia, the destruction of human embryos, the unscrupulous use of the death penalty and the killing of infants who were not killed by abortifacients were a women’s issue.  Middle-age women and teens are at the forefront of the prolife movement, especially among Catholics.  Catholic men attend workshops and lectures and then go home.  However, one third of the people affected by crimes against human life, ultimately against God, are men.  Another third are women and the last third are the unborn children.

We need to challenge men to step up to the plate and be good fathers.  We need to evangelize young men instead of handing them condoms.  It is our duty to bring all men back to Jesus.  However, we need men to evangelize their brothers.  These can be married men or single.  They can be secular or consecrated religious.  Teams of consecrated celibate men and married men are the ideal missionary team.  Together, we can present the big picture of what men can be.

If you’re male and are reading this, ask yourself if God is calling you to serve your brothers in the prolife ministry by walking the journey with them.  Don’t worry about not having anything to contribute or not knowing what to do.  Those of us who are in the ministry will walk with you and together we can walk with our brothers.  Just bring the gift of your masculinity before the Lord and put it at the service of your brothers.

Where are the prolife men?

For more information contact Brother Jay here .

Published in: on November 19, 2010 at 9:17 AM  Comments (1)  

Loyal Subjects of the King and Faithful Sons and Daughters of God


We have a moral duty to be children of the Church.  At this time, when our nation goes to the polls to vote, we must remind ourselves that we are citizens of the Church and a nation.  As citizens of the Church, we must guide our nation to fulfill the destiny that God has given to every nation, to ensure the welfare of its people.  We must first secure every human being’s right to life, then all of the other rights that flow from that.

Several years ago, I found myself teaching a group of high school students who live with autism and learning disabilities.  We were discussing human rights.  A 16-year old boy raised his hand and said, “If you don’t secure the right to life, why waste time discussing the other rights?”  It causes one  to wonder who has learning disabilities.

The unborn, sick, elderly, disabled and the embryo in a Petri dish are all sons and daughters of God.  They have come into existence through the Word of God, not man’s will.  Man supplies the mechanics; only God can give life. 

As Brothers of Life, it is our mission to remind Catholics of our martyrs, who gave their lives for their faith.  Along with them, we have a rich tradition of holy men and women who suffered a bloodless martyrdom, living with inconveniences and sometimes suffering and hardship, as a natural part of living a virtuous life.  Sometimes, the Gospel of Life requires sacrifice.  Very often, true love hurts.

The enemy deceives us into believing that we must make certain sacrifices in order to have safer neighborhood, better schools, more jobs and the other things that we want for our families.  However, on the great moral ladder, the highest good remains the dignity of life. 

The bible is our best guide.  Look at how it is organized.  The first book of the bible is the Book of the Beginning, not by coincidence.  God wrote about the origin and the sacredness of life  into the hearts and consciences of the biblical writers.    They could not compose the sacred texts and ignore the one great truth; all life comes from and through the Word of God and all was created for Him.  As St. Francis so clearly wrote in his Canticle of the Creatures, all life reflects something of the Glory of God. 

Today, some men and women seek political posts at the expense of life.  This is an immoral use of the democratic process.  The true and noble purpose of democracy is to protect the inalienable rights of man, not to gain a vote at the expense of man.  Man’s first inalienable right is the right to be born.  His second inalienable right is inscribed on the other side of the same coin, the right to die at a time and in a manner of God’s choosing.  God chooses when we are to be born and when we are to die according to his plan for our salvation.  Man has no right to interfere with God’s plan for his salvation.

We are not an evolutionary accident.  We are the product of the mind of God.  In His mind there is a precise moment in history that is conducive to our salvation.  He brings us into existence and gives us the right number of years of life to work out our salvation according to His plan. 

The highest form of worship is to love, respect and protect what God creates.  The highest form of service is to make proper use of what he gives us.  To use science and law in a manner that is contrary to his plan is a grave sin, because it is an irresponsible use of God-given talent and freedom.  We must ask ourselves whether it is moral to place men and women in office who will use knowledge and freedom to offer legal protection to the murder of innocent people.

We have been given freedom for a purpose.  Contrary to popular opinion, God did not give us freedom to choose right or wrong.  God gave us freedom so that we might choose what is right and thereby be truly deserving of his grace and heaven.  God made is with the same attributes as his Son.  Jesus freely chose to do the Will of his Father.  He embodies everything that a man should be and should do.  He chooses to die, rather than allow us to perish.  We, who are created in the image and likeness of the Son, have the power to make the same choice.  We can live with suffering and challenges, rather than allow others to perish.

We may have to vote for a candidate that does not deliver the material things that we want or need, but who supports and protects the highest good of all, the right to be born and the right to live as long as God wishes us to live.  For many of us, this may be a form of bloodless martyrdom.  Like St. Thomas More, we must be loyal subjects of the king and faithful sons and daughters of the Church, even if it means martyrdom.

Published in: on November 1, 2010 at 6:37 PM  Leave a Comment  

Jesus Wants to Go to the Poor


It’s been a slow day for this old brother.  There is a head bug going around and we have become good friends.  The problem is that when you get one of these colds, you can’t go to the pregnancy centers, because you don’t want to spread it to the parents and children, especially the moms that are expecting.  God forbid that they get sick.  It’s not only cruel, because pregnant women can take very few medications, but they often lack medical insurance.  The largest sector of people are immigrants who are struggling to make it.   Because of the restrictions on Medicaid and Food Stamps, they need our help.

We desperately need funds and people to open a house for pregnant women who live in abusive situations.  They have no place to go.  The existing community resources are over extended.  More homes are needed, esepcially a home where pregnant mothers can go with their children.  Many homes and shelters have limits on the ages of the children that they can bring with them.

A few weeks ago I received a call from a woman.  She was pregnant and had a 12-year old.  She had to get away from an difficult situation.  No shelter in the metropolitan area would take her, because she had a 12-year old.  They don’t take mothers with pre-teens.  Br. Peter and I found ourselves trying to find a place for Jesus.  He was homeless, just like he was when Mary and Joseph arrived in Bethlehem 2000 years ago.  After six hours of calling, begging and praying, a home became available.  St. Joseph, the protector of families came through for us.

The unemployment rate is on the rise.  This really concerns me.  I want to do something about it, but without more brothers and volunteers, we are very limited.  I want to give these people something of Jesus and sometimes, I don’t know where to begin.  So . . . as the song from the Sound of Music says, “Let’s go to the very beginning.  A very good place to start.”  Do you remember that song?  It’s the one where Maria teaches the children to sin the Do Re Mi.

We always go to the beginning.  We sit and we listen and try to help them find services.  We provide clothing, food, counseling and education.  We now have a father’s program that is increasing, thanks to the intercessory prayers of St. Joseph.  We have put our men’s services in his hands.  Since we have done so, the number of men coming to our classes has quadrupled.  There are couples who were living together that have now married and are forming families.  Some couples have separated, realizing that sex and having children is not the best foundation for a marriage.  At the same time, they have committed to working together for the good of their children.  A married couple that seemed to be on the verge of divorce is now enjoying days walking through the park, visiting the local mall and spending time talking.  These are all signs of St. Joseph working overtime.

I want to invite you to come visit us and spend some time with our families.  They are truly wonderful.  We do not have a big friary and probably never will have one.  We live very simply, according to the spirit of St. Francis who wanted his brothers to live the monastic experience of prayer, obedience and brotherhood among God’s people as itinerant preachers and brothers to all.   Therefore, we own nothing, not even a house.  We cannot offer the comforts of a traditional monastery or priory.   However, like the early Franciscans, we offer you a home with brothers who care about each other, the Church and the poor.  We take Jesus to them and find him among them.

Obedience to the Church, the Rule, and the superior, the Eucharist, common prayer and individual prayer is the foundation of the work.  Without this, the work ceases to be Jesus’ work.  It becomes social work.  Think about it and let us know.  I look forward to hearing from you.

Fraternally,

Brother Jay

Published in: on October 10, 2010 at 12:53 AM  Leave a Comment