The more that I think about it, the more convinced I become that my mother and God were
very close to each other. Of course, she’s been deceased for over a decade. How close they are is no longer a question. She was a very good woman, though we did not always think so when she put her foot down. In any case, let’s get back to what Mom and God had in common. One can’t handcuff either of them and they both insist on having the last word.
A few years ago, I met a young man on Catholic Answers Forum (CAF). He was a revert to the faith. Like many reverts and converts his zeal was sometimes very harsh and gave little or no credit to the rest of us foolish mortals who remained with the Catholic Church from before Vatican II to the present moment.
Somewhere along the line, I let it drop that I am a Franciscan o
f Life, wear a grey habit and work within and for the Archdiocese of Miami. What I didn’t know was that my friend worthy also lived in the Miami area and was carefully weighing everything I ever wrote. Even if I had known, it didn’t matter to me. Unless he’s in a crisis pregnancy, terminally ill, immigrant poor, or a person living with a disability he’s not in the target population whom we serve. There are many good laymen, priests, brothers and sisters in the Archdiocese who serve other populations.
In 2013, the Archdiocese of Miami held a synod. I had the honor of being asked to serve on the one of the teams. It was a wonderful experience for me. When the first task of the synod was done, that phase was closed out with a special assembly and liturgy. Some people from campus ministry invited my young friend to the closing ceremonies of the synod.
Somehow, in a crowd of over 1,000 people, he spotted Brother Christopher Thomas, put two and two together and figured out that Chris is a Franciscan Brother of Life. He followed us
out of the hotel into the parking garage and shouted out, “Which one of you is JReducation?” I think he was a little surprised when I raised my hand. I don’t remember if he actually introduced himself other than say that he knew me from CAF. To be honest, I only got a glimpse of him as he ran back into the building.
However, since God and my Mom won’t be handcuffed and they must have the last word, I would soon be speaking to this young man again, and again, and again. I began to see the seeds of a vocation to the Franciscans of Life. I kept inviting him to return and return he did; but hedragged his feet. For a while I considered buying him a horse similar to that of St. Paul. Everyone saw the Franciscan in him, except him. 
Finally, after several months of looking at us, hehas applied to and been accepted to begin postulancy with the Franciscans of Life as a consecrated celibate brother. Let’s not all get up and cheer at the same time. The road ahead is long. It takes six years to become a
perpetually professed Franciscan of Life. You see, God does not operate on our schedule, won’t speak when we say so, and certainly is not under our control.
In my mind, it’s easy to understand God when I think about my mom. When something needed to happen, she would make it happen. You couldn’t handcuff the lady. And when you needed to get a message, she’d make sure you heard it. There was no gagging her. What you did with the gift was entirely up to you and so it is with God. He will not be gagged or handcuffed.
However, you will never be forced to follow. You will be invited. The response is in your heart.






opposite side of the house, how would we know that we truly understand what God is revealing to us? To understand we must listen, ask questions, separate the reasonable from the unreasonable, truth from falsehood, and Gospel from fashion. Only then will we be on the right path toward achieving our ultimate goal, to know God, serve God and love Him with all of our heart, mind, body and soul, here and in eternity.
all player will tell you that the best defense is a good offense. Translated into Gospel terms, human life must be protected from the culture of indifference which is a culture of death. The best way to protect man and preserve him for the Kingdom is to push back against the economy of sin. Sin can no longer be allowed to be the currency that rules our lives as individuals, families or nations. When sin governs our lives, man despairs and the message of Christ is smothered by the cries of angst . . . . Man looking for gods, rather than Go
lieve that this is a good month to do something together that is open to other members of the Catholic and pro-life community. The Franciscans of Life encourage everyone who reads our blog to organize an activity for this special month on life and the family. It can be something as simple as an evening rosary between several families, a night of praise and worship, a penitential service in atonement for those who destroy instead of build the human family. You may want to organize a meal with several couples to celebrate traditional marriage and family. The demon that afflicts human life and weakens the fabric of the family will only be evicted from our lives with prayer and fasting. A family or community day of fasting and abstinence is always
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