¿Seremos Minions?


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Hace unos dos años que el Hermano Bernardo me convenció que viera una de las películas de los Minions.  Para los que hayan visto las películas, me refiero a la primera, titulada “Despicable Me,” eninglés.  No tengo la menor idea como se llama en español.  En todo caso, la película me pareció simpática, pero nada del otro mundo.

La semana pasada, el Hermano Bernardo me expuso a la tercera película de los Minions en la cual nos cuentan el pasado de las creaturas amarillas con los lentes grande.  Me di cuenta de que Minions no es una película de dibujo animado para niños, sino para adultos.  Esta vez la disfruté mucho más que anteriormente.

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No sé si fue la intención del autor del guión.  Encontré que los Minions nos confrontan con la condición humana, no como debe ser; pero como es en la actualidad, con sus flaquezas y su búsqueda de algo sad manmejor que nunca parece llegar.

Vemos que los Minions tienen un sentido transcendental de su existencia.  Andan en búsqueda de un ser supremo que les ofrezca protección y les dé sentido a sus vidas.  Se apegan al dinosauro, luego al oso salvaje, después hombre cavernícola, a los egipcios, seguidos por Napoleon Bonaparte y otras figuras con gran poder y malas intenciones.

Su apego carece de buen juicio.  Los Minions ven como supremo al más fuerte, al más astuto, sin fijarse el en carácter moral de su nuevo líder.

¿Acaso no ha sido esa la realidad humana desde que Dios creó a Adán y a Eva?

El hombre siempre busca más allá de sí mismo.  Nuestra naturaleza es transcendental, ir más allá de nuestra persona.    Con demasiada frecuencia, cometemos el error de seguir al más pérfido (aquel cuya astucia es maliciosa). Por supuesto, las cosas nunca terminan bien.  Tenemos que comenzar de nuevo a buscar otro ser supremo a quien servir y que nos proteja.  Esa es la gran búsqueda de los Minions.  La persona que no comprende que el único ser supremo que puede satisfacer su necesidad de servir y de ser amado y protegido es Dios, es un Minion.

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Durante una parte de la película, los Minions depositan toda su confianza en el desarrollo comercial, urbano, técnico y gubernamental de su entorno.  Construyen una gran sociedad con grandes maravillas.  Al contemplar su obra, se encuentran vacíos.  La tecnología, ciencia, política, economía y ninguna forma de desarrollo material satisface su sed de Dios.  Desdichadamente, el nombre de Dios nunca se menciona en ningún segmento de la serie, aunque en la primera película vems a las tres niñas huerfanas rezar antes de acostarse.

Decía San Agustín, “Nuestros corazones no reposarán hasta que descansen en ti Señor.”  San Agustín es un buen ejemplo de un Minion humano.  Buscó encontrar la seguridad de la verdad en todas partes.  Al no MAN CRYINGencontrarla se concentró en sí mismo, en los placeres de la carne y de la mente, en la satisfacción de sus pasiones.  Pero nada lo llenaba ya que lo que su alma buscaba no se encontraba en las cosas ni fuerzas de este mundo.

Igual los Minions, a pesar de tener sus jefes y su gran sociedad tecnológicamente avanzada se morían por falta de realización.  Al fin, tres salen en busca de un nuevo capataz, convencidos que sus vidas se salvarían al encontrar dicha figura.  Con un capataz que les protegiera y les diera dirección, se encontrarían con la felicidad.  Así lo creían.

Encuentran otros personajes siniestros a quien se apegan confiados de que habían encontrado su salud y seguridad, tal como lo hacemos los hombres.  Nos agarramos de aquellos que son poderosos, de la tecnología, y las ideologías.  Nos agarramos del trabajo y su recompensa o de ciertas personas en nuestras vidas.  A la final, nada satisface el hambre del corazón.

Si seguimos la serie de los Minions, vemos que la satisfacción de los Minions y su capataz se encuentra no en lo que este mundo ofrece, aun cuando son cosas buenas.  Su felicidad comienza a hacerse realidad en la medida que van desprendiéndose de lo malo, lo innecesario y de la supuesta seguridad que nos brinda tener poder.  Su verdadera felicidad y propósito de vida, se da a conocer en la medida que los protagonistas reconocen y se entregan a la fuerza del amor.  Aun cuando dicho amor no se ve, se siente su presencia.

La experiencia de los Minions refleja la experiencia de muchos hombres y mujeres.  Su transformación no ocurre de la noche a la mañana.  Se convierten en la medida en que aman y aceptan ser amados.

No les puedo contar cuándo y cómo ocurre la conversión total.  Primero porque la serie aún la están desarrollando.  Segundo, creo que la realización del ser humano se logra solo en el encuentro con la perfección del amor.  En la mayoría de los seres humanos, dicho encuentro ocurre en el momento puntual en que el alma se libera del cuerpo.  Es en ese punto que nos encontramos cara a cara con lo que siempre hemos buscado.  Hay que pasar un juicio para determinar si somos dignos de mirar a los ojos del Amor por toda la eternidad.

 

La serie de los Minions tiene para largo rato, si se mantiene fiel a la condición humana.  Asumiendo que los productores le den una conclusión a la jornada de los Minions, no olvidemos que lo que parece ser la meta de la vida terrena, es solo la primera página del próximo capítulo.

Published in: on November 16, 2017 at 12:35 AM  Leave a Comment  

Are we Minions?


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About two years ago, Brother Bernardo convinced me to see one of the Minions films. For those who have seen the movies, I refer to the first, titled “Despicable Me,” in English. I have no idea what it’s called in Spanish. In any case, the film seemed nice, but nothing special.

Last week, Brother Bernardo exposed me to the third film of the Minions, which gives you some of the history behind the yellow creatures with the big lenses.

I noted that Minions is not so much a cartoon movie for children, but for grown-ups. This time I enjoyed it much more than before. I do not know if it was the intention of the author of the script. I found that the Minions bring us face to face with the human condition, not as it should be; but as it is today, with its weaknesses and its pursuit of something better than ever that never seems to come.

Also, we realize that the Minions have a transcendental sense of their existence. They are in search of a supreme being who offers them protection and gives meaning to their lives. They cling to the dinosaur, then to the wild bear, then the caveman, to the Egyptians, followed by Napoleon Bonaparte and other figures with great power, but bad intentions. The Minions’ attachment lacks good judgment. They perceive as supreme the strongest, the most astute, not seeing the weak moral character of their new leader.

Has this not been our human reality since God created Adam and Eve?  Man always seeks beyond himself. Our nature is transcendental, going beyond our person. All too often, we make the mistake of following the most perfidious (one whose cunning is malicious). Of course, things never end well. We must start over in search of another supreme being to serve and protect us. That is the great pursuit of the Minions. One who does not understand that the only supreme being who can satisfy one’s need to serve and to be loved and protected is God, is a Minion.

 During a part of the film, the Minions place their trust in the commercial, urban, technical and organizational development of their environment. They build a great society with countless wonders. When they consider their work, they are empty. Technology, science, politics, economics, and no form of material development satisfies his thirst for God. Unfortunately, the name of God is never mentioned in any segment of the series, although in the first movie the three young orphan girls are seen praying before going to sleep.

St. Augustine said, “Our hearts will not rest until they rest in you Lord.”  Augustine is a respectable example of a human Minion. He sought to find the haven of Truth ubiquitously.

When he did not find her, he concentrated on himself, on the pleasures of the flesh and mind, on the satisfaction of his passions. But nothing filled him; because what his soul sought was not in the possessions and forces of this world.

The Minions, despite having their bosses and their great scientifically advanced society, were dying.  They were failing to become what they were meant to be.   Finally, three go out in search of a new foreman, convinced that their lives would be saved if they found the strongest and most astute chief. With a foreman to protect them and give them direction, they would find happiness.  So, they believed. They find other sinister characters and believe they have found their health and safety, just as men do. We cling to those present us with powerful, technology, and ideologies. We seize the job and its “reward” and attach ourselves to shaded individuals. At the end, nothing satisfies the hunger of the heart.

As we follow the series of the Minions, we realize that the satisfaction of the Minions and their foreman lies not in what this world offers, even when they are good things. Their happiness genuine in the measure that they detach from the immoral, the unnecessary and of the supposed security that gives us power. Their true happiness and purpose of their life, is perceived to the extent that the protagonists identify and surrender to the force of love. Even when such love is not seen, its presence is felt.

The experience of the Minions reflects that of many men and women. Conversion does not occur overnight. Change is possible to the extent to which they love and accept being loved.

I cannot tell you when and how the total conversion happens. First because the series is still developing. Second, I believe that the realization of the human being is achieved only in the encounter with the Perfection of Love. For most of us, this encounter occurs at the precise moment when the soul about to be freed from the body. We come face to face with Whom we have always sought. We must pass a judgment to determine if we are worthy to gaze into the eyes of Love for all eternity.

The series of Minions can go on forever, if it stays faithful to the human condition. Even if the producers give a conclusion to the search of the Minions, we know that the end of our earthly life is merely the first page of the next chapter.

El Poder de la Crianza Cristiana


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 Soy padre y abuelo…y superior de los Franciscanos por la Vida. De la misma forma que muchos fundadores antes que yo, tuve familia antes de ser el Hermano Jay. El miembro más joven de mi familia es mi hermosa nieta, la pequeña princesa Katherine. Katherine celebró su primer cumpleaños en octubre 2017. Antes de continuar su historia, permítanme elaborar sobre el contexto de mi reflexión.

En el “Día de Elecciones 2017”, los residentes del Estado en el que vive mi familia eligieron a una persona transgénero a la legislatura estatal. Algunas personas estuvieron deleitadas, porque se ha progresado en la inclusividad. Otras personas se enfurecieron por la cuestión moral que la expresión “transgénero” levanta.

No voy a discutir la cuestión moral, ni tampoco las cuestiones legales o políticas. Quiero hablar de algo más importante: criar a nuestros hijos en un mundo que cambia muy rápidamente, un mundo en el que muchos cambios están en conflicto con nuestros valores, culturas, e identidades de hombres y mujeres de América. Esto no significa que todo cambio sea malo. Sin embargo, no debemos engañarnos y creer que todo cambio es bueno. Cuando algo funciona, lo mantenemos. Desechamos lo que no funciona y lo reemplazamos con otra cosa. A veces, simplemente vivimos con el vacío dejado por lo que desechamos.

Esto nos lleva de vuelta al tema de Katherine. Cuando una amistad mencionó que los padres de Katherine deberían mudarse a otro Estado para evitar “la inmoralidad” que tiene lugar en el Estado donde viven (la “inmoralidad” siendo la elección de un político transgénero), mi reacción inmediata fue afirmar que no hay sitio en los Estados Unidos ni en ninguna otra nación en el que todos vivan según los principios de la ley natural, mucho menos según la fe y la moral.

Esa misma semana leí un artículo en uno de los periódicos conservadores cristianos. El autor escribía sobre una ocasión especial, el baptismo de un infante. Lo que llamó mi atención, más que la fe del escritor o de la familia del bebé bautizado, fue el hecho que el autor hizo referencia a la Iglesia Católica como “el Titanic”. Aunque el escritor esclareció que él no cree que la Iglesia sufrirá el hundimiento del Titanic, sí afirmó que la Iglesia tiene agujeros por doquier, se está llenando de agua, y la situación está descontrolada.

Estos dos acontecimientos me hicieron reflexionar sobre las formas en las que reaccionamos frente a una nueva vida entre nosotros. Para algunos, el nacimiento de una nueva persona es causa de felicidad y ansiedad. Nos regocijamos en el nacimiento de nuestros hijos, nietos, y sobrinos. Pero debemos estar al tanto de lo bueno y de lo malo que ocurre en el mundo que nos rodea. ¿De qué otra forma podríamos proteger a nuestros hijos y enseñarles a protegerse? La ignorancia no es una bendición. Mas aquellos que hablan demasiado de lo malo, lo feo, lo pecaminoso, lo trágico, y lo desastroso no disfrutan a pleno del nacimiento de un bebé porque son hipervigilantes. El autor del artículo que leí y la persona que sugirió que los padres de Katherine se mudaran parecen ser hipervigilantes. Lo dañino de esta situación es que, aunque no debemos ignorar el mal que se halla en el mundo, debemos siempre hallar formas para que nuestros niños se desarrollen y prosperen a pesar de ese mundo que los rodea. Lo que me lleva a otra experiencia que he tenido esta semana.

parenting006 Mi yerno, fotoperiodista de fama internacional, siempre tiene una cámara lista para grabar los hitos de Katherine. Esta semana me envió una fotografía y un video breve. En la fotografía, Katherine está sentada sobre el regazo de su mamá, sus ojitos pegados  sobre la página de un libro que Mamá le está leyendo. La familia de Katherine (padres, tíos, y abuelos) son lectores ávidos. Desde la primera semana en la casa, todos tomaron turno leyéndole desde Dr. Seuss hasta Cicero. Katherine parece responder al ritmo de la lectura y seguir el lector con los ojos.

parenting005 Recientemente, ha comenzado a caminar. Aprendió a tomar en sus manos un librito que le interese, llevárselo al papá o a la mamá, subirse sobre el sofá a su lado, y demandar que se lo lean. El papá capturó uno de estos momentos con su cámara. De ahí el video breve en el que mi nieta escoge un libro, lo abre, y comienza a “leer”.

Antes que decidamos enviar esta niña a MENSA, hay que clarificar que ella tenía el libro bocabajo y hacía sonidos mientras que sus pequeños dedos recorrían la página, algo que probablemente ha observado sus padres hacer cuando le leen.

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¡A leer con Tío Julian!

Katherine nunca deja de sorprendernos. Sus padres son católicos devotos. Katherine comenzó a ir a misa la semana después de su nacimiento. Por mucho tiempo, como la mayoría de los bebés, se quedaba dormida en su canasta. Al descubrir su voz, también descubrió el coro. Cuando el coro comienza a cantar un himno, Katherine se une con su balbuceo melódico.

Un Domingo, durante una Santa Misa, algo interesante ocurrió. El cura invitó a la congregación a rezar juntos el Padre Nuestro, como siempre, pero a mucha sorpresa de sus padres, Katherine pareció entender la palabra “padre” y comenzó a balbucear su propia versión de la oración! Claramente no tenemos idea de lo que le pasa por la mente a una niña de doce meses que decide cantar y rezar en la Misa.

parenting002 Mi yerno merece ser el modelo de paternidad. Es un padre excelente. Tiene cintura negra en Judo y ha estado “entrenando” a Katherine, quien chilla de deleite al entretenerse con su papá. Y como hemos mencionado, ella tiene una unión afectiva fuerte con ambos padres, que también se expresa con su deleite cuando lee junto a su mamá. Es demasiado temprano para analizar los pensamientos de Katherine. No más podemos observar y contar lo interesante que notamos.

Esto me hace volver al “Titanic” de San Pedro y a la elección del político transgénero. ¿Podrán padres como los de Katherine hallar un santuario en el que sus hijos e hijas jamás oigan de algo objetable? Probablemente no. ¿Podrán los padres impedir que el mundo cambie para lo bueno y lo malo? No estoy seguro que sea posible. ¡Ni tampoco pueden bajar los precios de las viviendas, del seguro de la salud, de la gasolina, de los servicios, y de las otras necesidades de la vida! Como todo padre, los de Katherine también deberán lidiar con la “montaña rusa” moral, los huracanes políticos, y las ideologías toxicas para nuestras mentes y almas.

Cuando vemos a esta pequeña niña prosperar a pesar de todo lo que ocurre en su entorno, debemos preguntarnos: ¿acaso hay algo imposible para Dios?

Si la madre y el padre de Katherine siguen por el “camino estrecho” y siguen proveyéndole estimulación espiritual, intelectual, física, social, y natural, en un ambiente donde ella pueda alcanzar más allá de sí misma, como en el caso de la adoración a Dios los Domingos y días sagrados, entonces quizás Katherine no crezca sin las manchas de nuestra débil humanidad, pero seguramente crecerá con el anhelo por las bendiciones que nos fortalecen en nuestro peregrinar. Esas bendiciones son: oración, libros, adoración, juegos, ejercicios, disciplina, nutrición, amor, y buenos modelos a seguir.

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Published in: on November 13, 2017 at 4:04 PM  Leave a Comment  

The Power of Christian Parenting


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 I’m a dad, a grandfather…and the superior of the Franciscans of Life.  Like many founders before me, I had a family before becoming, Brother Jay.  The youngest member of our family is my delightful granddaughter and everyone’s little princess, Katherine.  Katherine celebrated her first birthday October 2017.  Before going further with Katherine, allow me to construct the context for my reflection.

Election day, 2017, the residents of the state in which my family lives elected a transgender person to the State Legislature.  Some people were very pleased, because we have made progress in inclusiveness.  Other people were very upset, because of the moral questions that arise when one mentions “transgender”.

I’m not going to address said moral concerns, nor the legal and political ones either.  I want to address something more important.  Raising our children in a world that is changing very quickly, a world where many changes conflict with our values, culture and identity as American men and women.  This does not mean that change is bad.  However, we must not fool ourselves into believing that change is always good.  When something works, we keep it.  We get rid of what no longer works and replace it with something else.  Sometimes, we simply live with the void left by that which we jettisoned.

This takes me back to Katherine.  When someone approached me suggesting that Katherine’s parents move to another state to avoid “the immorality” taking place where they live, the immorality being the election of a transgender politician, my immediate reaction was to say that there is no state in the United States, nor country where everyone lives according to the absolutes of natural law, much less guided by faith and morals.

That same week I read an article in one of the conservative Christian newspapers.  The author reported on a very special occasion, the baptism of an infant.  What caught my attention, more than the faith of the writer and the newly baptized child’s family was the author’s reference to the Catholic Church as the Titanic.  He clarified that he believes that the Church will not suffer the fate of the Titanic and sink, but that it’s taking on water and things are out of control.

These two events made me think about how we react to a new life among us.  There seem to be some people for whom the birth of a new person is a source of joy and anxiety.  We rejoice in the birth of our children, grandchildren, and nieces and nephews.  We should always be aware the good and the bad in the world around us.  How else can be protect our children and teach them to protect themselves.  Ignorance is not bliss.  Those who talk too much about the bad, the ugly, the sinful, the tragedy and the disasters don’t enjoy the birth of a child to its fullest, because they are hypervigilant.  The author of the article that I read and the person who suggested that Katherine’s parents move to another state seem to be hypervigilant.  There is a danger here too.  While we should not ignore the evil in the world, we must always seek ways for our children to thrive despite the world around them.  This takes me to a third experience that I had this week.

parenting006My son-in-law, who is an internationally known photojournalist, always has a lens on hand to record Katherine’s milestones.  Just this week, he sent a photograph and a short video.  In the photograph, Katherine is on her mother’s lap, her eyes are glued on the page of a book that Mama is reading to her.  Katherine’s family: parents, uncles and aunts are avid readers.  From the first week home, everyone took a turn reading to her everything from Dr. Seuss to Cicero.  She seemed to respond to the rhythm of the reading and followed the reader with her eyes.

parenting005Recently she has started to walk.  She now picks up a book that’s interesting to her, takes it to her mother or father, climbs on the couch next to Mom or Dad and demands that they read to her.  Dad captured one of these moments with his “dadmera” (Dad’s Camera).  A few days later, came the short video.  Katherine picked up a book of her choosing, opened it, and started to read it.

Before we decide to send this baby to MENSA, let’s make it perfectly clear.  She was holding the book upside down and was making sounds as her little finger ran across the page, something that she probably sees her parents do when they read to her.

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Reading time with Uncle Julian!

Katherine never ceases to surprise us.  Her parents are devout Catholics.  Katherine has been attending mass starting the week after she was born.  For a long time, like most babies, she lay in her carrier and slept through the Holy Mass.  When she discovered her voice she also discovered the choir.  When the choir struck up a hymn, Katherine joined them with her melodic babbling.

One Sunday, they were at Holy Mass as usual.  Something interesting happened.  The priest invited called upon the congregation to pray together The Lord’s Prayer, which begins with the words, “Our Father . . .”   To her parents’ amazement, Katherine heard the word “father” and chimed in with her version in Babble.  We have no idea what goes on in the mind of a 12-month old child who sings at mass, joins in reciting the Lord’s Prayer.

parenting002My son-in-law deserves to be the “Fatherhood Poster Boy”.  He’s an excellent father.  He’s a black belt in Judo and has taught Katherine some of moves.  She squeals in delight when Dad engages with her. As we have said, Katherine has a very intimate relationship with both parents.  The bond of love expresses itself in reading, and squeals of delight doing Judo with Dad.   It’s too early to try to analyze Katherine’s thoughts.  We can only observe and report the interesting things that we see.

This takes me back to St. Peter’s “Titanic” and the election of the transgender politician.  Are parents like Katherine’s going to find a haven where their daughter will never hear or see anything objectionable.?  Probably not.  Can they stop the world around them from changing for the good and the bad?  Not so sure that’s possible either.  Nor can they bring down the price of housing, healthcare, gas, utilities and other necessities of life.  Like every parent, Katherine’s will have to deal with today’s moral roller coaster, the political hurricanes that come and go, and ideologies that can do serious harm to our minds and souls.

When we look at this little girl thriving, despite everything that’s going on around her, we must ask ourselves the question, “Is anything impossible for God?”

If Katherine’s mother and father continue the “road less traveled” and continue to provide spiritual, intellectual, physical, social and natural stimulation in an environment where she can reach beyond herself, as is the case in the worship of God every Sunday and holy day, Katherine may not grow up untouched by our weakened humanity.  But she will grow up with a taste and a hunger for those blessings that strengthen us for the journey.  Those are: prayer, books, worship, play, exercise, discipline, nutrition, love and good role models.

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Your Fuse is Longer Than You Know


DSC_0020There are some people out there who strongly criticize what they call “The Church of Nice.”  Unfortunately, their meaning has been incorrectly applied.  They are referring to a community of believers that gives everyone and every fault a pass to avoid conflict or hurting someone’s feelings.  Let’s get this straight.

Deliberately hurting another person, emotionally, spiritually or physically is never an option.  One may understand self-defense.  Even self-defense must be proportionate to the offense.  On the other hand, while we do not have the right to deliberately hurt others, we have a moral obligation to atone on those occasions when we do so.

It is very easy to go to confession and say, “Father, I accuse myself of being uncharitable.”  It is much more honest to say, “Father, I accuse myself of hurting someone because I wanted to do so.  I got satisfaction from seeing the other person hurt.”

Then comes repentance.  Going to confession without repentance is of little value.  The priest can pronounce the words of absolution, but if you walk out of the confessional with no intention of correcting how you treat others and being more conscious of their feelings, it begs the question; what is your plan for your conversion?  Do you plan to atone?  Do you plan to avoid this sin by being more attentive to howPopeFrancisConfession you say and do things?  If you cannot answer these questions positively, then one must ask you, why did you go to confession?  The confessional is not a washing machine where you throw in a pair of dirty socks and the machine cleans them whether the socks want to be cleaned or not.  We are far superior to a pair of sox.  We should know the conditions for forgiveness and we should have at least the resolve to sin no more.  This is not a guarantee that we will never sin again.  It’s a covenant between the individual, God and the Church to avoid hurting others deliberately.

Let’s address the subject of hurting others, now that we have discussed what should happen before and after you go to confession for this violation of charity and justice.

There are many people who claim to have “a short fuse”.  Their parents, their teachers, their friends, their spouses and their children have reinforced this idea.  When a lie is repeated often enough, it becomes a reality for those who lie.  It is much easier to reinforce negative behavior than it is to reinforce positive rantingbehavior.  You may have grown up in a home where the adults shouted at each other, bullied each other (verbally and physically).  As you were growing up you experimented by saying hurtful things to your parents, instead of a severe consequence, your parents simply shouted back and the battle went on until someone ran out of ammunition.

Then there is a kid who comes home bullied in the schoolyard and tells his parents.  The advice he gets from Mom and Dad is to defend himself from abuse by returning abuse for abuse.  This is the pre-Christian rule, “an eye for an eye.”  What have we taught our children?

We have not taught them that words hurt or that actions can scar others.  What we have taught them is how to get even.  Detent is not the same as resolution.  Frightening another person into “niceness” is not the same as being models of justice and charity.

Here we face another problem.  There are many people of faith who have argued with me, “But Brother, that’s not the real world.  In the real-world people are tough and if you don’t push back, they’ll keep you down and even destroy your life.”

The second half of this statement is true.  Evil does exist in the world.  People do evil to others as a means of exploiting them, controlling them, punishing them or threatening them.  The fact remains that it’s still evil.

The Christian may never choose evil in response to a situation.  He may use proportionate self-defense to protect himself and his family.  But he may not choose evil to get his way.

This means that no one has the right to offend another person, because it serves his wants or his needs.

Making mean comments, using profanity, raising your voice, being dismissive of another, accusing another of something that is not true, are sins against justice.  Before we consider charity, we must consider justice.  Every man, woman and child has a right to expect you to speak to him with reverence.  Your target listener has been made in the image and likeness of God.  When you forget this and you grow lax in the reverent treatment of another human being, you cheapen the life that God has given us.  You little_babyoffend God’s creative power.  Your offense sends a message to God and others.  The message says, “I don’t care if this person is the image and likeness of God.  God’s image and likeness are beneath me.  I am free to offend and walk away calmly.”

The next time that you want to violate “niceness”, remember that you are essentially telling God that the person he created is worthless.  Therefore, you’re concluding that God can and does create worthless lives.  But the Gospels tell us differently.  “God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that all my have life and have it in abundance.”

Have you tried to show a grain of love for others or is being polite, kind, meek and “nice” beneath you or not in your vocabulary at all?

Try patience, kindness, niceness or whatever you want to call it.  Don’t fall for the lie that you have a short fuse.  God has given you a fuse much longer than you know.

 

 

For Catholics and Non-Catholics — Gospel Cliff Notes — The Rosary


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For Catholics, the month of October is the Month of the Holy Rosary.  Let’s clarify.  It’s not the only time of year when Catholics pray the Rosary.  October has become designated as the Month of the Holy Rosary, because on the 13th of October, Our Lady of the Rosary appeared for the last time at Fatima.  It was on this day that thousands of people gathered in Fatima, Portugal, saw what has been called The Miracle of Sun.  I’d like to leave the subject of the “Dancing Sun” to astronomers, philosophers and systematic theologians.  I am none of the above.  My formation is Spiritual Theology, once called Ascetic and Mystical Theology.

I’m writing this for the benefit of our non-Catholic friends, relatives, co-workers and neighbors, many of whom believe that praying the Rosary is evil, because “one should not pray to saints, because only God is to be worshiped.”

Let’s clarify the first point.  When Catholics pray the Rosary we are not worshiping the Blessed Mother.  Those who are familiar with the Gospel of Luke should be able to recognize these words.

ANNUNCIATIONChapter one of Luke’s Gospel in the King James Version (KJV) of the bible tells us the following.

“And the angel came in unto her, and said, Hail, thou that art highly favoured, the Lord is with thee: blessed art thou among women.”   (Lk 1:28) KJV

During the Rosary, we pray the Hail Mary 53 times.  Pay close attention to the opening lines of the prayer.

Hail Mary, full of Grace.  The Lord is with thee.. Blessed are thou amongst women

We’re speaking to Mary with the words of the Angel Gabriel.  Who would dare say that Gabriel’s words are blasphemy or idolatry?  Was Gabriel worshipping Mary?

Absolutely not.  He is greeting her and in the greeting he acknowledges that Mary has a special place in God’s mind.  Catholics refer to such as “grace”.  Instead of saying “favored of the Lord” we simply say, “full of grace”.  After all, can one be favored by the Lord God and be devoid of his life (grace)?

Let’s return to Luke.  The Angel informs Mary that her relative, Elizabeth is in the sixth month of her pregnancy.  Mary sets out to the town where Elizabeth lived.  One can safely assume that it was to lend a hand, since Elizabeth was an older woman.  Luke tells us

And it came to pass, that, when Elisabeth heard the salutation of Mary, the babe leaped in her womb; and Elisabeth was filled with the Holy Ghost:  And she spoke out with a loud voice, and said, Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb. (Luke 1:41-42) KJV.

The Hail Mary continues with the words of Elizabeth  VISITATION

Blessed are thou amongst women, And blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.

At this point, we insert the Holy Name of Jesus, as a reminder that it is the Son of God who is the fruit of Mary’s womb.  We speak to the Virgin Mary using the words of Sacred Scripture.  Every Christian knows that the words of the bible are without error.  It is impossible for Luke to write something that Elizabeth did not say, much less something that is contrary to God’s revelation.

Elizabeth continues

 And whence is this to me, that the mother of my Lord should come to me? (Lk 1:43) KJV

Gabriel had said that Mary’s son

 And, behold, thou shalt conceive in thy womb, and bring forth a son, and shalt call his name Jesus.

He shall be great, and shall be called the Son of the Highest: and the Lord God shall give unto him the throne of his father David:  And he shall reign over the house of Jacob forever; and of his kingdom there shall be no end.  (Lk 1:32-33) KJV

Gabriel and Elizabeth refer to Jesus as God.  Elizabeth uses “the mother of my Lord”.   The Jewish people recognized only one Lord.  That was God.  Elizabeth address Mary as the Mother of God.  The Angel informs Mary that her son will reign forever and that he is the Son of the Highest.  Neither Gabriel nor Elizabeth are stating the Mary is the mother of the Trinity (Father, Son and Holy Ghost).  She is the mother of the Son.  The question is simple.  Do you believe that Jesus Christ is God?  Do you acknowledge that Mary of Nazareth is Jesus’ mother?  Does this make her the mother of 1/3 of God? NO.  She is the mother of one of the three persons in God.  All three persons are the one God.  That’s why we can refer to her as “the Mother of God.”

And so, Catholics pray

Holy Mary, Mother of God Observe the closing statement in the Hail Mary.

Pray for us, sinners.  Now and at the hour of our death.

Is there anything wrong with asking another person to pray for us today and at the hour of our death?  Some may say that Mary cannot pray for us, because she is dead.  But didn’t Jesus promise eternal life to those who are faithful?   Observe this

And, behold, there appeared unto them Moses and Elias talking with him. … (Mt.17:3) KJV.

transfigurationMoses and Elias had been dead several hundred years.  Yet, they appear and speak with Jesus.  The disciples who are watching observe that they are real, not ghosts.  It’s not too difficult to believe that if Moses and Elias could be seen by the disciples, even though they had been dead for several centuries and that Jesus could converse with them, why should we not believe that Jesus’ mother is not granted the same or a higher privilege than Moses and Elias?  Jesus is the perfect son.  He would place his mother in stasis while allowing the prophets and patriarchs to live after death?  Jesus is not cruel.  We can safely conclude that Mary can pray for us, because she’s alive.

There is nothing wrong with asking someone to pray for us.  If I have an opportunity to ask the mother of praying togetherthe King to put in a good word with her son, on my behalf, I would be a fool not to take advantage the same.

To conclude, I’ll simply explain that we pray the Hail Mary’s in sets of 10.  Each recitation of the Rosary has five sets of ten.  The Psalms were originally divided into sets of ten.  Each set of psalms followed a theme.  So, it is with the rosary.  Five decades and each decade offers us a reflection on one of the mysteries in the life of Christ and his relationship to God the Father, the Holy Spirit and to his mother.  Christ would not leave her out of his circle of significant others.

The Father and the Holy Spirit or Holy Ghost are the same God as Jesus.  It’s obvious that any event in Jesus’ life is going to involve the Father and the Holy Ghost, front stage or back stage.  But they are present.  Because Jesus is human, as well as divine, he has another significant person in his life, just like us.  That person is his mother.  She is not part of the Trinity.  She is not God.  But she is the Mother of one of the three persons in God.  We believe that Jesus is God.

Then Simon Peter answered him, Lord, to whom shall we go? thou hast the words of eternal life.  And we believe and are sure that thou art that Christ, the Son of the living God. PANTOCRATOR(Jn 6:68-69) KJV.

Peter makes a public profession of faith.  He identifies Jesus as the Christ or the Anointed One who is both God and Son of God.

This Christ has a mother, who is not God.  She is very much a human being.  As she is the mother of the perfect son, it stands to reason that the Father would not select a icon_to_Jesus_through_Marysinful woman to carry His son in her womb to be contaminated by sin.  Remember, Jesus has a human nature.  God the Father creates the sinless woman to be the God Bearer.

The Rosary has five decades.  We recite the Hail Mary using the words found in the Bible.  Catholics did not make this up.  We are not worshiping Mary.  In the first half of the Hail Mary, we are praising her, just as Gabriel and Elizabeth praised her.  Who would accuse Gabriel or Elizabeth of worshiping Mary?

The second part of the rosary is a petition.  We ask Mary to pray for us.  Given a choice between my mother praying for me and Jesus’ mother praying for me, I’m sure that Jesus’ mother carries more weight.  Even though my mother was a wonderful woman.  The very fact that she was MY mother, tells it all.  She was far from sinless.  Just look at me.

The Rosary is composed of words taken directly from the Bible.  The Bible does not lie.  The problem is not the Rosary.  The problem that some people have is that they want to apply their logic to God’s mind.

For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the Lord.(Is 55:8) KJV

 

 

 

 

 

 

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A SUMMONS TO MEN AND WOMEN WHO WANT TO LEARN MORE


This year, the annual Respect Life Conference, sponsored by the Florida Catholic Conference, will be hosted by Respect Life Ministry of the Archdiocese of Miami.

I’m posting a link where you can register for the conference.

If you want to learn more how to promote the right to be born and the right to live until God decides to call you home, this is the conference for you.

FRANCISCANS OF LIFE support and endorse this program.

Look for some of our brothers at this important event. We would be happy to answer your questions about our participation in this indispensable apostolate. Just look for the guys dressed in grey with a red cord and a Franciscan Cross over their heart. We will be milling around during the breaks and in the evening after the final talks, for those who are night owls.

We guarantee that it will be far from anti-abortion rally. It’s a learning opportunity for those who want to know the answers to the key questions concerning the right to be born and the right to die when God decides to call us home, not before.

FOR THE LEAST OF THEM

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Those who come in may see the Light — The eye is the lamp of your body


Dear friends and family:

For more than a year, I’ve been struggling with very low vision.  As many of you know, I’m a diabetic.  Diabetes has a very bad habit of targeting the eyes, heart and kidneys.

Aftfingerpointinger looking through a fog, I finally took and deep breadth and decided to take the risk with eye surgery.

The surgery was a success.  The cataract in my right eye is gone and an artificial lens has been implanted.  My vision improved from 20/60 with glasses and 20/400 without glasses to 20/25 without glasses.  I can drive again.

The problem for our community came when we were informed that our insurance covered only

Divine Physician

a portion.  We had to come up with $1,300 for surgery, $350 tests, and another $300 for new glasses.

We didn’t have that kind of money. So, we paid using Care Credit, which allows you to pay off the debt in 12 months without interest or so they say.  It’s the first time we use them.

In any case, like faithful sons of St. Francis, we’re working hard to earn some money to pay this bill; but we can use all the help we can get from friends and benefactors.  If you would like to donate $5 toward this medical expense, just use PayPal or check our website www.franciscansoflife.org for our mailing address.  Make check payable to Franciscans of Life Inc.

For those who don’t know, I have only one eye.  My left eye and ear never matured fully, as I was a 33-week premature runt.  Everyone in my family is over six feet tall.  I’m only 5’7”.   They can all see and hear fine.  One should accept what God gives and give what he requests of us.

We, the brothers, thank you in advance for your help.  If you can’t donate money, please donate prayers.  God will find us donors, if we ask him for some donors.

I have always been and will be,Your friend and brother,

Brother Jay

Los Desastres son Oportunidades para Experimentar la Incarnación de Cristo


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Cuando el huracán Irma se acercaba al Sur de la Florida, como superior de los Franciscanos por la Vida otorgué a los hermanos permiso para salir de la Florida, buscar refugio en un sitio más seguro, o quedarse en la casa de la comunidad.

Personalmente, escogí quedarme en la casa de la comunidad, también conocida como nuestra “casa madre”. Esto no es asunto de ser bravo o héroe. Sencillamente es nuestra forma de entrar en unión con los pobres. Nuestra casa se halla en una comunidad de bajos recursos. La gente aquí no tiene el dinero para ir lejos. Sus opciones eran ir a unas de las escuelas públicas buscando refugio o fortificar sus casas lo mejor posible y quedarse ahí.

Con frecuencia, el Papa Francisco habla sobre salir a las periferias. También ha utilizado expresiones como “tener olor a oveja”. Contrariamente a lo que muchos piensan, estas ideas no son nuevas.

En el Antiguo Testamento encontramos a Moisés, quien creció como príncipe siendo hijo adoptivo de la princesa. Él sale al encuentro de los esclavos hebreos, respondiendo al mandato del Señor de librar a Su pueblo de la esclavitud. Dios le dijo a Moisés que guiara a Su pueblo fuera de la esclavitud, pero no le quitó su libertad individual. Moisés podía volver a su vida de comodidad y haber dejado que Dios buscase alguien más para que saliera a las periferias y lidiara con los esclavos hebreos que eran pobres, incultos, y a veces infieles a su religión. En otras palabras: los hebreos en esclavitud vivían “en las periferias” por muchas razones. Eran esclavos, extranjeros, monoteístas, no tan sofisticados como los egipcios, y frecuentemente infieles a su religión. Sin embargo, Moisés sale a su encuentro. Los guía fuera de Egipto y muere en medio de ellos.

En el Nuevo Testamento, Nuestro Señor Jesucristo se acerca a los recaudadores de impuestos, a los Samaritanos que fallaban en religiosidad, y a los que la sociedad rechazaba por tener discapacidades o lepra. El Señor se hace uno con ellos. Igual a ellos es víctima, pero Él es la víctima sin mancha de pecado que será elevada en la cruz como ofrenda por los muchos.

En fin, quisiera mencionar a San Francisco de Asís. Francisco vivió y sirvió entre los leprosos. Mendigó  por su  manjar como un peón, a pesar de ser hijo de un rico comerciante. Él y sus hermanos vivieron en refugios muy pequeños y primitivos. Con frecuencia se refugiaban debajo de pórticos para que la lluvia no les mojara demasiado, y allí pasaban la noche.

Cuando un hombre hace votos como Franciscano por la Vida, sabe con seguridad que su vida jamás será igual.

Dejará detrás de sí todo aquel que consideraba “normal” y “correcto”. Abrazará una vida que puede parecer en contra de la naturaleza. La nuestra es una vida en fraternidad con los que no tienen voz. Hacemos voto de hacernos uno con ellos. Nuestra pobreza no es una imposición del pecado del hombre, sino un don de Diós. La abrazamos como la Segunda Persona de la Santísima Trinidad abrazó nuestra humanidad.

Hombre desamparado busca refugio en una parada de autobús durante el huracán Irma

Es importante que las personas de fe oren por las víctimas de los huracanes Harvey, Irma, y José. También es importante que aquellos entre nosotros que tienen la posibilidad de hacerlo se acerquen a las víctimas de estos desastres naturales.

Con demasiada frecuencia, algunos individuos se sientan en la cátedra del juez como “teólogos del apocalipsis” y proclaman confianzudamente que “Dios está bravo” o que “esta es la gran tribulación descrita por Juan en el Libro de la Revelación”, o que “Nuestra Señora de Fátima nos alertó sobre lo que está ocurriendo”.

La verdad es que nadie tiene acceso íntimo a la mente de Dios para conocer el sentir de Dios hacia cualquier cosa que Él no ha dicho a través de la Revelación o de la Iglesia. Ni hay nadie que tenga acceso al plan de Dios para la purificación de la humanidad.

Afirmar que Harvey, Irma, Corea del Norte, el terremoto en México, etc. son castigos de Diós es arrogancia. El hombre afirma conocer la mente de Dios en situaciones muy específicas. Pero las Escrituras nos recuerdan que nadie conoce la mente de Dios. “Con respecto a ese día y esa hora, nadie los conoce, ni los ángeles en el cielo ni el mismo Hijo, sino solamente el Padre” (Mt 24:36).

¡No presumamos conocer la mente de Dios o entender porqué Dios permite que estas cosas ocurran! Recordemos que los desastres naturales han sido parte de la historia de este mundo desde el comienzo de su existencia. Afirmar que los desastres naturales de hoy en día son el gran castigo de Dios y la señal de los últimos días es presunción.

Sin embargo, no es presunción caminar con aquellos que sufren en estas situaciones. Hay muchas formas de hacerlo. Podemos ayudar a un vecino que se prepara para un acontecimiento natural o se siente desolado y confundido después de la tragedia. Podemos invitar a otros para que oren a Dios que dé a cada víctima lo que él o ella necesita, no lo que nosotros pensamos que necesitan. Debemos evitar la tentación de dictarle a Dios lo que Él debe dar y no dar a los demás como si fuésemos Sus supervisores.

Somos Sus servidores. Nos acercamos al Señor. Le pedimos que nos escuche. Le ofrecemos nuestras oraciones de petición para que Dios provea para los necesitados lo mejor para ellos. Junto a esto, también le pedimos a Dios que nos otorgue la gracia, la valentía, y la generosidad de salir al encuentro de aquellos que han sufrido a causa de estos acontecimientos. Dios quiere que nos acerquemos a ellos. Lo vemos en el Evangelio según Mateo: “Lo que han hecho por el menor de mis hermanos, lo han hecho por mí”.

En fin, citando Evangelium Vitae (El Evangelio de la Vida):

“Algunas amenazas [a la vida] provienen de la misma naturaleza, pero son empeoradas por la culpable indiferencia y negligencia de aquellos que en ciertas ocasiones pudieran remediarlas” (EV 10).

Jamás olvidemos que “fuimos rescatados de las vías fútiles de [nuestros] padres no con cosas perecederas como oro y plata, sino con la preciosa sangre de Cristo, cordero sin mancha” (1 Pt 1:18-19).

No podemos quedarnos sentados intentando leer la mente de Dios. Estos acontecimientos ocurren para el bien de todos. La sangre de Jesucristo, al revelar la grandeza del amor del Padre, nos muestra cuán precioso es el hombre a los ojos de Dios y cuán valiosa e inestimable es su vida. Si vemos la vida como Dios la ve, entonces no nos sentamos a profetizar el Armagedón. Sencillamente hacemos lo que Dios mismo hizo: nos encarnamos en medio de aquellos que sufren, como Cristo mismo se encarnó y sufrió con y por ellos.

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Disasters are Opportunities to Relive the Incarnation of Christ


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When Hurricane Irma began to approach South Florida, as superior of the Franciscans of Life, I gave the brothers permission to leave Florida, seek shelter in a safer location, or remain at our community house.

For my part, I remained at our community house, also known as our “motherhouse”.  This is not a matter of being brave or a hero.  It’s our way to become one with the poor.  Our house is in a low-income community.  The people here don’t have enough money to go too far.  Their choices were to go to one of the local public school to seek shelter or to fortify their homes as best as possible and hunker down.

Pope Francis frequently speaks about going to the peripheries.  He’s also been known to use some “colorful” expressions such as “smelling like the sheep.”  Contrary to what many people may think, these ideas are not new.

In the Old Testament, we see Moses, who was brought up like a prince as an adopted son of the princess.  He goes out to the Jewish slaves, responding to God’s command to lead His people out of slavery.  God told Moses to lead His people out of slavery, but He did not take away his freedom.  Moses could have walked back into his comfort zone and let God find someone else to go out to the peripheries and deal with the uncouth, probably poor and sometimes unfaithful Jewish slaves.  In other words, the Jews in captivity were on the peripheries for many reasons.  They were slaves, foreigners, monotheistic, not as sophisticated as the Egyptians, and often very unfaithful to the faith.  But Moses went to them.  He took them out of Egypt and he died among them.

In the New Testament, Jesus goes out to the tax collectors, prostitutes, less than religious Samaritans, and to those rejected by society due to handicap or leprosy.  He becomes one with them.  In becoming one with them, He becomes the unblemished victim of human sinfulness, which was raised on a cross and offered for the many.

Finally, I want to mention St. Francis of Assisi.  Francis lived and served among the lepers.  He begged for his food like a common peasant, despite that he was the son of a wealthy merchant.  He and his brothers lived in very small and primitive shelters.  Often, they had no shelter.  They cuddled up under the awning of an entrance to avoid getting too wet by the rain.  There they spent the night.

When a man makes vows as a Franciscan of Life, the one thing that he knows coming in is that his life will never be the same.

He will leave behind everything that he thought was “normal” and “right”.  He embraces a life that can appear to be against nature.  Ours is a life lived in fraternity with the voiceless.  We vow to become one with them.  Our poverty is not imposed on us by man’s sins.  Our poverty is a gift from God.  We embrace it as the Second Person of the Most Holy Trinity embraced our humanity.

Homeless man seeks shelter at a bus stop during Hurricane Irma.

It is important that people of all faith pray for the victims of Hurricane Harvey, Hurricane Irma, and soon, Hurricane Jose.  It is also important that those of us who have the means to do so, reach out to those who are the victims of these natural disasters.

All too often, some people sit on the chair of judgment as an “Apocalyptic Theologian”, making broad statements that “God is angry” or that “this is the great tribulation that John described in the Book of Revelation” or that “Our Lady of Fatima warned about this”.

The truth is that no one has intimate insight into the mind of God to know how God feels about anything that He has not disclosed through Revelation or the Church.  Nor does anyone have access to God’s plans for the purification of humanity.

To claim that Harvey, Irma, Jose, North Korea, and an earthquake in Mexico is God’s retribution, is arrogance.  Man is claiming to know the mind of God in a very specific situation.  Scripture tells us that no one knows the mind of God.  “But about that day or hour no one knows, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father,” (Mt 24:36).

Let us not presume to know the mind of God and why God allows these things to happen!  Let us also remember that natural disasters have been part of the earth’s history for as long as it has existed.  To point to those of today as the great punishment from God and the sign of the end times, is presumptuous.

One the other hand, it is never presumptuous to walk with those who suffer in these situations.  There are many ways to do this.  We can lend a hand to our neighbor preparing for a natural event or lost and confused after the tragedy.  We can invite others to pray that God will give each victim what he or she needs, not what we think the victims need.  We must avoid the temptation to dictate to God what He should give and withhold from others, as if we were His managers.

We are His servants.  We approach God.  We ask Him to hear us.  We offer our prayers of petition that God may provide for those in need what is best for them.  Along with this, we ask God to give us the grace, courage and generosity to reach out to those who have been hurt by these events.  God often wants us to reach out.  We see this in Matthew.  “As long as you did it for one of these, the least of my brethren.  You did it for me.”

Finally, from Evangelium Vitae (Gospel of Life):

“Some threats [to life] come from nature itself, but they are made worse by the culpable indifference and negligence of those who could in some cases remedy them,” (EV 10).

Let us never forget that we “were ransomed from the futile ways inherited from [our] fathers, not with perishable things such as silver or gold, but with the precious blood of Christ, like that of a lamb without blemish or spot” (1 Pt 1:18-19).

We cannot just sit around trying to read God’s mind.  These events happen for the benefit of all.  The blood of Christ, while it reveals the grandeur of the Father’s love, shows how precious man is in God’s eyes and how priceless the value of his life.  If we see life as God sees it, then we don’t sit and prophesy Doomsday.  We do what God did.  We become incarnate among those who suffer, as Christ became incarnate and we suffer with and for them.